Teasing is great way to build more attraction. Actually many men lack this playfulnes in their character. It's an aspect of them that they never developed, perhaps in fear that girls would dump them if they are bold enough to make some small teasing remark. Some guys like to naturally tease other guys and maybe girls too. It's good to playfully tease your friends once in a while and keep the mood fun and manly.
Teasing should be done in a confident and funny manner. David Deangelo was first known to teach this technique of Cocky&Funny (C&F for short). This is perfect technique to use also when you learn how to tease girls and your friends in a good way. Shortly, start with something cocky and add in some funny. Too much funny without enough cocky can sound goofy. Too much cocky without enough funny can sound just plain arrogance. There must be balance.
Cocky and funny are two of the three elements we use when we communicate with the girls. Being sexual is the third element. You can bring sexuality also to your teasing. Thus it becomes Cocky&Funny&Sexual. This sexuality is being sexual in flirty way, not openly sexual of course. Girls don't like if you say something sexual directly, just imply it. Being flirty also usually brings the balance in the equation.
Why is C&F so good? Why you should start using it now? Because it tells girls many good things about you:
- You are confident
- You have sense of humor
- You value yourself
- You don't place her on pedestal and you don't feel nervous around her
The most important thing is that it brings ENERGY to the interaction and thus results in a better VIBE
Never tease her about her looks or something she might have issues about. Remember that you are a gentleman, not an idiot.
Here are some examples of Cocky & Funny. Don't become too obsessed with this technique thou. It is meant to be used only as a spice. Some guys really take this technique over the edge and it becomes their main method of communicating. Although this technique is great remember to keep the balance. Something C&F once in a while is enough to keep the attraction going.
