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This rule states that when you see the girl and she notices you then you have three seconds to open her. Otherwise she will think that you are another wuss. Opening in three seconds also appears to...
Short for Average Frustrated Chump. The guy who has no game. He wants a girl for himself but can't get them. Girls call him freak or creapy guy, guys call him wussy.
He has many self-limiting...
Of course there this hidden AGENDA. All men want to get some. But to get the girl it must be pushed of the mind for a while and just enjoy the conversation and vibe, being interesting. There is a...
Girls are very attracted to men who have power over other men. This is one of their MAJOR switch. If you are muscular, that switch is automatically on. Well, sometimes other guys can be hostile...
[In the same nightclub]
*HB sitting alone, her friend is in bathroom, mr DJ arrives*
DJ: Hey! What on earth are you are doing? (I will sleep with you but I'll have fun with you first)
HB: Why?...
The habit of appreciating makes your vibe good and positive. What am I talking about? What you should start to do is to find positive things from people around you, from things around you and from...
Attainability means that the girl perceives that she has a change to get you. You are in her league.
We don't become attracted to hot girls who are out of our reach. Of course these super models...
The girl must be attracted to you before she wants to do anything with you. It's important to know that attraction must be present before getting to know the girl better (to have rapport with her)....
Make a rule for yourself not to ask any questions before the other person does. Even when they do you don't have to. Communicating without any questions is fluent. It takes some effort to learn but...
It is not superb idea to remain too mysterious person. I'll light this topic by quoting two DJs and letting them talk:
"When first meeting a woman the first thing you need is rapport. If you are...
Girls love when you tickle them, when you have some thumb restling or play rock-paper-scissors of who must do the dirty work. Girls love playful men. This aspect is good to cultivate. Don't be...
Body language is huge part of creating superior vibe. It may be something like 90% of the whole communication. Maybe even more. If you appear to be relaxed the girl will allow herself to relax....
We don't just suddenly become confident. No, confidence is something we must build and add through time. Sometimes we might feel bold (after few pints) but that is not the same as being...
Quote from PUA Guru Tyler Durden's post "Social Intelligence - vibing"
[http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/skills/social-vibing.html]
"As guys, we don't care. We might feel nervous that we'll...
This is a list of some best known seduction teachers that offer their material in exchange of your bucks. Most of these people offer ebook/cd/dvd-material and workshops/seminars.
Badboy
David...
Girl must work to get you. This work is called compliance. Tell her to do some small things for you. She will comply you as long as you have enough value. Compliance is in fact related to value....
Computer games are bad for us DJs*. Well, they are bad for anyone. They eat up our time, the time we could use to have some real life experiences and skills. Playing WoW in internet isn't social...
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We have already looked about making statements. It should have given you a good basic idea how to vibe with girls. With making statements you build up a good mood and vibe. Generally you want to...
Demonstration of Higher Value
DHV is essentially bragging. We use DHV when we can. The difference between normal bragging is that DHV is IMPLICIT. We don't say that we have a nice car. We let her...
Don Juan.
A male person who wants to develop himself to a best person he can be. This road he has chosen will never end, Don Juan has always something to learn and better in himself.
Don Juan is...
DJ (Don Juan) is not a PUA.
Being a DJ means being the REAL man, the best you can be and forever keep improving all aspects of your life. This is philosophical stuff, we call this also inner...
Some women are attracted to unbalanced guys. Emos (emotional guys) and potheads are example of these.
The whining and complaining that emotional guy does offers a context for conversation. When...
Note: This page discusses about my personal views on life.
It was Ross Jeffries whom I first heard this concept: "You don't get what you want or desire, you only get what your energies are capable...
This is a simple law which states that both persons in relationship must give each other roughly equal amount of value. If the value is in unbalance then the relationship will run into troubles and...
Okay, this is a basic model for one type of conversation. The structure is as follows: Fact, Feeling & Value. You start with stating some fact. Then you tell how you feel about it. Finally you...
First, I want to tell you that the mainstream seduction has done good job. Lots of good models of how to get girls have emerged through the time. David DeAngelo, Style and Mystery, all these guys...
These are like the engine of attraction. Incorporate these into your game and I guarantee the discussions you'll be having gets interesting.
First, frames have everything to do with the perception....
Guys who are not smooth can usually have discussions like this. And this is very good talk for them. The HB is on her good mood (none given her enough attention and this guy looks good).
[In a...
Note: If you are under 17 yrs old then I don't recommend you to go gym as it could harm to physical growth.
Girls LOVE muscles, there's no doubt about that. Not even pretty face compare to having...
Hot Babe. Term from the seduction community.
HB9.5 is a female whose look is 9.5 on "objective" scale (4-10). We try to judge girls always on objective scale so we can get an idea of what kind of...
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This post is mostly for absolute beginners or those who have really irregular sex-life and suffer from this problem. When I first started having sex I realized that I have a big problem: I came too...
It's NOT TRUE that you must get to know her as a person first. She must get to know you, she must have an IDEA of you. You must project your personality / identity to her. This is where the advice...
When you are watching a really good movie you get totally sucked into that. A good movie or a good book can hold your attention from begin to the end. They are capable to have you immersed totally...
This is a model for saying something interesting. Usually this results to as some small routine.
So, let's assume you have something interesting you want to talk about. First you either let the...
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Communicating your frame & vibe properly is more important than what you actually say.
Girls can tell just by observing your body language if you are insecure or confident. You can say...
Let's Just Be Friends
You invest into girl when you build rapport with her. This takes time. With the good rapport you can for example ask the girl to do some small favour for you. So, rapport has...
A magical moment is a moment of shared immersive experience. During a magical moment the awareness is totally sucked into the experience. The time flyes by. Everything goes totally right and well....
Here's an, rather long, excerpt from Plato's Gorgia. It describes "Real Natural Philosophy" with passion. Socrates was an ancient greek philosopher who was accused of making youngsters go wild with...
Neediness is literally need or want for something. If you are a needy person, there is something you crave for. It could be some girl, respect from others or validation. Neediness, if not cured...
I tell that social value is 15.23%, monetary value is 14.77% and sexual value is 70%. Where I get these numbers? I didn't make them up myself, they are actually the numbers the original author of...
This is the standard scale for judging girls.
Very Hot Babes are between 9-10.
Good looking babes are between 8-9.
Girls with some minor faults are between 7-8.
Girls who have something which...
Socializing, approaching and dating SHOULD be effortless but still it isn't for many. Why?
"Carpe diem" or live in the moment is the goal.
For most guys who consider themselves antisocial it is not...
You can ask two types of questions. The close ended questions and open ended questions. Close ended questions demand a one worded answer, usually either yes or no. For example: "did you give Mark...
There isn't some one liner to start interesting convo, it all depends on the situation. I'm situationally relevant. That's the key. Then I have major topics where I can direct the conversation into...
This is about taking control of any situation and living
your own way. Self confidence shows how much you believe in your
own reality.
Passions
Develop positive and attractive passions. Some are...
Pick up artist. Some guys think they are pick up artists. These guys are plenty in the seduction community. Pick up artists develop skills to get sex with women. Usually they follow some model...
The aim of the rapport is to connect with the girl, get her trust in you and make her comfortable around you.
Rapport is created by shared immersive experiences. There's no other way to attain...
Although there is an objective reality we all see it through our belief systems and other filters. Some thing which makes one person laugh can make other person cry.
For every human being reality...
Okay, we start this from the most basic skill: relaxing. See, "game" (your model to get girls) as we call it is like a pyramid. It requires a very solid ground to build upon. This is the place...
No one really teaches (maybe Style) this simple but essential technique what I like to call rooting. By rooting I mean that you can open any imaginable topic with girl if you tell her well enough...
The major source for seduction related material is Alt.Seduction.Fast. Fastseduction.com. All the major PUAs emerged from that site. Thanks to well moderated forum there is tons of useful...
Usually we want to avoid asking questions, that's just not smooth. Actually a person who asks a lot of questions can be very annoying. Don't be that person! BUT sometimes there just isn't much...
What's the best way to keep the girl?
To give her great sex.
It's simple, only good things come from good sex and bad sex slowly makes the relationship numb. Become great in bed and she won't allow...
Shit-tests are something what all girls do. Some do it consciously and most do it subconsciously. It doesn't matter because if you fail her shit-test the result is always the same; you will lose...
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Before we start to vibe, let's make one thing clear: you must always be situationally relevant, SitRel for short. Credits for this concept go to Vincent from theApproach (Be sure to check their...
In the age of renaissance italians used term "sprezzatura". It meant making difficult things looks effortless. We Don Juans also want to exercise sprezzatura in everything what we do. We hone our...
If you want a smooth interaction with a girl you should follow this model. The first stage is meeting the girl. You have to do something to get the interaction going. This stage is called the...
You will use statements as main method to build and maintain the context for your vibe. The simple rule is "avoid questions, make statements". Every question can be reformed into a statement. One...
For very good vibing some stories are essential! Those who are good in vibing use stories or small anecdotes VERY often. Simple topic association and talking about different things is fluff-talk,...
Teasing is great way to build more attraction. Actually many men lack this playfulnes in their character. It's an aspect of them that they never developed, perhaps in fear that girls would dump...
The feeling which testosterone gives for me broke down somewhat:
Pure power, like I could do anything and beat anyone. Not being submissive. Not taking crap from anyone.
I don't give a dime about...
[Happened in a nightclub]
*Hot Babe, HB is sitting alone, her friend is in bathroom. Mr. AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) arrives*
AFC: Hey, my name is AFC. What's your name? (he thinks that HB looks...
Usually we want to avoid asking questions, that's just not smooth. Actually a person who asks a lot of questions can be damn annoying. Don't be that person! BUT sometimes there just isn't much...
You can colour anything you say or do. Your three magic colors are cocky, sexual and positive, fun having mind. You can get the cockiness with your voice tone, how you smile or move your body.. You...
This one is a small thing to say but really huge factor in a successful vibing! Get this one down really well and your interactions will be smooth!
So, the situation is that you are vibing with...
You should have some favourite topics you like to talk about. The topics you most often talk about form the identity for you so you must choose how you want to present yourself. It's good to talk...
Actually the whole game is based on gaining the attraction and keeping it up. And value is the major component of attraction. So, here we are, in the very core of how our game really works. If you...
Dictionary definitions for vibe:
1) a distinctive emotional aura experienced instinctively; "that place gave me bad vibrations"; "it gave me a nostalgic vibe" [syn: vibration]
2) often, vibrations....
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It's a mistake to verbalize that you think she looks hot. To look at the mechanisms behind all this:
Your goal is first to get her attracted to you.
Then you can build rapport with her.
After this,...
