For very good vibing some stories are essential! Those who are good in vibing use stories or small anecdotes VERY often. Simple topic association and talking about different things is fluff-talk, that means, it is just a filling the gaps between the REAL good stuff, which happens to be stories or routines. There is nothing wrong with the fluff-talk either, it keeps the vibing context alive and even with simple fluff-talk you can colour what you say and the girl loves you. So this is what vibing usually is: keep talking alive with simple fluff-talk and when you find that you have a good story, anecdote or routine that is relevant to the current topic then transition into it.
Stories help you to bring the energy in the interaction. And what is the best - you can choose what you want the mood of the story to be. Maybe happy, sad or just crazy. Girls love stories because they bring EMOTIONS for them. It helps if you already have some good stories from many topics which you like to tell to people again and again. Yes, you should tell the same succesful stories for many persons. So, I strongly advice you to take some time and prepare a set of interesting stories from your own life. Just notice that always end the story in a positive emotion.
The story should always present you in a good light. Never tell stories about you making fool of yourself. Stories can be used to brag about yourself in a very subtle manner. Story telling is an art itself, so I'm here offering just some outlines for a good story.
So, the good story always says something good about you. For women there are two main switches which should be turned either by telling stories or directly showing this trait. Firstly they want to see you as leader of other men. Tell a story where you have been in commanding situation. Or tell a story where some hostile guy came to you and how well you dealt that. The other switch is that you are preselected by other women. You can tell an another story how some girl had crush on you but you had to reject her because you were dating some other girl at that time.
Good story has lots of social dynamics; it involves other people. It has some drama or pain for some person. It can be funny or serious. Also the good story isn't too long.
When you tell a story you must act it out in your mind, as if it was happening again. Feel what you felt back then. It's good if you can be very descriptive. Use colourful language. When you start telling your story don't go too long back to details as that can be boring.
