First, I want to tell you that the mainstream seduction has done good job. Lots of good models of how to get girls have emerged through the time. David DeAngelo, Style and Mystery, all these guys are great bringers of knowledge. But however, they fail to realize or fail to mention this one thing. And this one thing is more than 90% of seduction.
ACTION
This concept, if practised, will render a new understanding for you how to seduce girls.
Action is the very essence of man. Girls are mostly passive. We men have this flame inside us and it is action. Since we were young we did lots of things. We played and fooled around with everything imaginable. While we were out and playing the girls were sitting and talking.
Why you think girls like men who take lead? They love the initiative power those men have. Those men possess action. Dates where the girl is taken into a bar are quite boring. It's all talk, zero action. Same with taking girl to a movie. But hey, taking girl somewhere is good in itself, it shows some action. But when a guy takes the girl to play pool, climb or shopping something else happen. The girl is being bombarded with action and she immerses into the moment. It is thousand times more effective than boring
"let's drink" date.
As men we are given the responsibility to take action. We make decisions. We have to actively plan events. If you want to be smooth you must have some plan in your head. You can first take her to a cup of coffee, stimulate her a bit with some nice vibing. Then take her out for shopping. Try together all kinds of cool clothes. Take pictures if you have camera with you. Then you can go to play a game of pool with her. You don't have to be following your plan as a slave. If you can be spontaneous you will both have incredible fun time.
Flow of action is this simple concept of DOING things instead of just talking. The superior vibe is present when there is action.
Seduction gurus may talk that some new era has arrived or will be.. Those guys who won't learn the seduction skills will be left behind in our society. Not true (they just want your money). There will always be men who possess action and know nothing about seduction. If a man possesses this single quality girls will automatically love him. No need for complex skills.
Usually we lack just a little bit of action. And once the action train gets rolling then it's hard to stop. Action gets stacking and building. Soon we have a constant flow of it. We have always something to do or go to. Constant flow of action = constant flow of value. See? Then you need just some basic seduction skills that make rest of this site.
You can cultivate this aspect of you. You can learn the action. So, how much there is action in your life currently? Do you have physical hobbies? Do you have friends calling you every weekend and asking out?
If you want to become a real Don Juan you must embrace action. Don't avoid it. Novelty seeking is the habit of DJ. We want new experiences. If you remain inactive you soon become victim of TV, obsessive internet surfing, internet porn, video games or reading more and more seduction material but never applying anything in real life.
Flow of action can be build with stacking. This is the very best way of becoming active. Start doing something very small and move to bigger. First, flex your muscles a bit. Raise your hands high up now and stretch them. Give a big yawn simultaneusly. Shake your shoulders. Good, the action is building. You can move to tiding your desktop. Then you can go and hangout in city, see something cool. Find some concert where you would like to go. Find some concert of which you wonder how it would be. Go there. Next day go swimming. Call your friend and ask him to play pool with you. Minigolf, tennis, bowl.. Start a new hobby of some martial art. Go to gym. Once you are rolling you have always some action. This becomes your reality. Girls will sense that there's something going on with you and they will come to you. Take your time to plan things. Plan what you want to do. Plan and do.
Just focusing your all time to learn this material, to be a pick up artist isn't the right way. To quote Style:
"Some guys give up everything — school, work, even GFs — to learn to sarge better. But all these things ALLOW you to sarge better, because they make you a more COMPLETE person.
A problem I've noticed amongst some of the most dedicated posters here, especially those who got into ASF (ie. newsgroup alt.seduction.fast -LionOne) in their teens or early 20s, is that they have INVENTED themselves through this theory. They are, to some degree, SOCIAL ROBOTS. And, after a great 20 minute set, it begins to show through to an HB ("Hot Babe") that you don't have anything MORE going for you. The other problem with being a social robot is that you start to think that everyone else around you is one too, and begin to read TOO MUCH into their actions."
See, while it is good to know decent amount of seduction (like all this site has to offer), it is bad not to have anything else going on with your life. In ancient times Socrates was accused of using all his time on philosophy. It was considered essential art for YOUNG men but not for grown up adults who had more MENLY things to do. You can read that excerpt here. There is a point when enough learning and thinking is enough and it is time for ACTION.
Your value will be incomplete without you having life and reality of your own. Truly the wrong way is to build life around women. Women are the spice, source of motivation and energy in our lives but not the purpose. Some men never realize this.
Exercise 1: take a moment and do some search of some event you want to participate in (maybe rock concert/football match). Take some event that you are interested in and you can afford to go to. Write down the date and time. Then ask some of your friend to go there with you. Go there and after the event have one drink and if you want to suggest you play a game of pool.
