The girl must be attracted to you before she wants to do anything with you. It's important to know that attraction must be present before getting to know the girl better (to have rapport with her). If there is no attraction but there is rapport then she will see you just as her friend. So always work to attain attraction first.
But WHAT is attraction? Can it be defined in easy terms? Well, we are lucky that the seduction community has been existing long enough to create some really accurate models! (And some less accurate too.)
I find this model of attraction fits the best. So, here it is. Credits go to Vincent DiCarlo and Sebastian Drake.
Attraction = Value * Attainability * Compliance
So, there it is. The whole science of getting girls compressed in one magical formula. And it is layed straight in front of your eyes. ;) This equation is shortly called VAC.
Now when you think about how to get girl attracted to you, think about this equation. Mostly you need to show that you have enough value for the girl. This includes eg. telling stories which show that you are a cool person who does cool things in his life. But you will need the A and C factors too to have attraction present.
